What can you play via correspondence on VK?

What can you play in VK messages?

Text games come in handy when you're bored or when you (or your interlocutor) aren't into casual conversation. They are especially relevant when you communicate at a distance, and all that is available to you is a text chat in messenger or VKontakte. Such games will entertain you, help you get to know each other better, and bring you closer together by spending time together and having fun.

Most of these games use text messaging. In some cases, photographs may be used that can be sent via chat on a social network.

Let's figure out what exciting games exist in message mode on VKontakte.

“Search for the positive” - play for the mood

This is a game that can improve your mood and also determine how optimistic your interlocutor is. The point of this game is that you describe a sad event, and your interlocutor must write what advantages can be seen in this unpleasant situation. For example:

You: “I ended up in the hospital”

Girl: “I’ll be able to relax and sleep, and my friends will take care of me by visiting me in the hospital.”

You: “It’s raining and cold outside”

Girl: “A great opportunity to stay at home, wrap yourself in a blanket and drink hot cocoa while looking out the window.”

Reverse Text - Will Make You Think Outside the Box

This is a very fun game in which all the words in a message must be written in reverse order. That is, the first interlocutor sends the second some sentence in a message, for example, “It’s a beautiful evening, isn’t it.” And the second one should send him the same sentence, but with words where the letters are written in the reverse order, that is, “Yandoes ynsarkerp rechev, en advarp il.”

Then the interlocutors change places, and everything is repeated in a new correspondence.

One out of two

The essence of the game is for your interlocutor to choose one of the two words you propose. At the same time, he must justify his choice. You write to him: “Android or iPhone,” he replies “iPhone, because it’s a trend.” Or “Winter or summer,” to which he might write, “Of course it’s summer, because this time of year is warm and sunny and you can eat a lot of ice cream.”

Truth or dare - you can even play messages in VK

A popular game that is played both online on social networks and while being close to each other. When the first one chooses “truth,” the second one is obliged to ask him a question, which the first one must answer as truthfully as possible.

When the first one chooses “action”, he is obliged to do what the second one tells him. In this case, proof of the action can be a photo that the first will send to the second via messages on VKontakte in confirmation of the action he performed.

Then the interlocutors change places, and the second interlocutor plays “truth or dare”, and the first one asks questions or asks to perform an action.

Abbreviations

One of the popular games in correspondence on VK develops imagination. In addition, it can be fun and give a lot of positive emotions. An abbreviation is a word that is formed by shortening the phrase. It is read by the names of the first letters or sounds of words. So first, come up with two to four letters and send them to your interlocutor. He must decipher each letter.

For example, you send the abbreviation “PKS”, the interlocutor deciphers it as “Kalashnikov machine gun.” He asks you to translate “ULT”, to which you can answer “narrow-beam transgenerator” or come up with another more fun decoding.

How to make sure that a man does not find rest in his wild imagination?

When you open up in front of a young man, he has no room for imagination. To excite a guy in correspondence as effectively as possible, you need to make his imagination work. What do I need to do:

Provoke your man to think with a playful message. “Remember, we watched a movie where a couple had sex in the shower. What do you think about this?". You hint to him to diversify your carnal pleasures, but there is no direct indication of this. And the scene from the movie will immediately appear before his eyes, the man will only think about you.
Don’t write him a detailed report: “I undressed, went to bed, it’s warm here, I’ll go to bed soon. It would be nice to make love to you.” Write briefly but succinctly: “I’m already naked, I really want to pamper myself in the crib. And you?".
Don’t write in plain text: “Come, I want you!” The guy will probably come, but this way you won’t ignite his imagination. And the longer he fantasizes, the sweeter the time you will spend together.
Avoid callous phrases: “I want us to get into bed and start kissing.” Try to diversify your messages with more detailed descriptions of your specific feelings:
“When I feel your soft lips, I just want to scream with pleasure.”

Such detailed messages will make the guy imagine, as if in reality, what could happen between you if you were nearby.

Trust your innate sexuality, and every woman has it, you just need to wake it up. Therefore, cast aside doubts and plunge headlong into erotic flirting. Become a provocateur of variety in your sex life.

Finally - an unusual technique

Let's do a thought experiment.

Imagine that you have the superpower to “read” men. It’s like Sherlock Holmes: you look at a man and you immediately know everything about him and understand what’s on his mind. You could get any man and have an ideal relationship, and you would hardly be reading this article now in search of a solution to your problem.

And who said that this is impossible? Of course, you can’t read other people’s thoughts, but otherwise there is no magic here - only psychology.

We advise you to pay attention to the master class from Nadezhda Mayer. She is a candidate of psychological sciences, and her technique has helped many girls find ideal relationships and feel loved

It doesn’t always seem appropriate to have correspondence touching on intimate topics, but if you decide to do this, sometimes it’s difficult to figure out what to ask to interest your interlocutor.

The article discusses options for constructing a conversation, vulgar questions for a guy or a girl, examples of games in VK 18 plus based on communication, and possible funny answers to make new friends.

A guy, having met a girl, must try to continue the acquaintance.

Cool, provocative questions will help:

Do you like smoking men?
Will you let me draw you naked?
Did you like your nickname as a child?
What is called a nophelet?
As a little girl, how did your friends tease you?
Are you for same-sex marriage?
If you had the ability to look through clothes, what would you like to see?
How would you react to my kiss?
Does a bird look like an airplane?
Who is better: a man or a woman?
What do you do if a guy tries to court you, but you don’t feel reciprocated?
Do you prefer to give gifts or receive?
Will you be the first to agree to reconciliation after a disagreement?
Do you like to wear sexy lingerie?
Would you agree to get drunk with me?
What question would you like to avoid?

Important! When deciding what questions to ask a girl, you need to be careful not to touch on a sore subject. In intimate moments, delicacy is especially important

Where to start?

First of all, test the ground. What if your gentleman is from the category of conservative men, and this kind of flirting is unacceptable for him. So write him a couple of low-dose messages of an erotic nature like “Honey, you really excite me when you put on those tight pants” or “Honey, I really want to snuggle up to you right now and feel the beating of your excited heart.” If a guy ignores intimate attacks in his direction and throws those same sexy pants on the far shelf, apparently he does not like exciting games of correspondence.

In order not to get into trouble by ruining the mood of yourself and your partner, you need to think through the whole action from beginning to end. Our recommendations for creating the right atmosphere for intimate messages will help you with this:

Think about whether your man is in a good mood for erotic correspondence? Remember what he has to do at this time of day. It is possible that he is too busy right now to be excited by ardent SMS. The ideal time to arouse a guy as productively as possible with a message is late at night before going to bed or in the morning after waking up.
Work out a possible scenario for future correspondence in your mind. Remember what especially turns a guy on. For example, clothes, some sexual position, or your hair down. Use these tricks in erotic correspondence and easily achieve your goal.
Tune in to the desired wave yourself. If you're depressed, feeling very tired and emotionally burnt out, you're unlikely to have a successful, exciting conversation. To get a boyfriend by correspondence, you need, at a minimum, to feel uplifted. The entire success of the operation depends on your energy at this moment.

All conditions have been met, which means it’s time to start correspondence. What to write to a guy to get him excited? There are many ideas on this matter, but now let's look at the best of them.

Flirting by correspondence with a man - Rules of the game

1) Do everything gradually

You shouldn’t switch to spicy topics abruptly, do everything smoothly. If you start writing explicit things to a man, and he is not ready for this, then it will turn out to be an awkward situation.

Do everything gradually. First, talk to a man about hobbies, hobbies, interests, and then move on to more interesting topics.

Great topic to start flirting with: Massage topic

Ask a man what kind of massage he likes best, what sensations he experiences and how much he enjoys the process. Immerse him in the world of emotions, not logic.

I assure you, this topic will hook him. And then the conversation will go in the direction you need.

2) Know how to switch

If you feel that a man is in no hurry to open up and communicate on 18+ topics, then it’s okay. You just need to switch to another topic, a more social one. Continue to get to know him better, be sincerely interested in him and his life (but don’t go too far, the interest should be mutual). And then you can return to the desired conversation.

Be flexible when texting a man. Don't get hung up on a particular topic if it doesn't suit you!

3) Be mutual

When corresponding with a man, it is important to be reciprocal. What does it mean? If he does not take the initiative, asks few questions and treats you coldly, then be reciprocal. Also, don't show interest in him. And if a man is sincerely interested in you, wants to get to know you better and is open to dialogue, then answer him in kind.

Reciprocity is very important. For example, if a man takes a long time to respond to your messages, then your response should not be quick. Or if he is always busy for you, then you have even more to do! The rule of reciprocity helps maintain a balance of value in communication.

Keep the conversation going

Chatting with a guy is significantly different from chatting with girlfriends. To win over a man by correspondence, you need to know a few subtleties:

Talk to the point. Give your interlocutor an opportunity to speak.
Communicate with the guy easily, cheerfully, at ease. Avoid negative topics.
Do not impose your point of view on a man, be restrained and reasonable.
If you are not aware of a topic, do not rush to move the conversation in another direction. Ask the guy questions, try to find out more about it. He will be pleased.
Try to avoid long and boring stories with unnecessary details.
Do not talk about what is unpleasant to your interlocutor.

You might be interested in: how to communicate correctly on a dating site.

Why try this?i

Exciting foreplay is an important part of good sex. Many women and some men need a specific environment to feel aroused—this is completely normal and is called “responsive attraction.” When all factors that distract from pleasure have been eliminated, you can move on to flirting and foreplay.

Messaging can be hot foreplay. It has a number of unique advantages. For example, you can start sexual play before you even meet your partner. The journey home can become exciting and long if your partner knows that you are completely naked waiting for him in the bathroom. By teasing each other with text and photos ahead of time, you'll both be horny by the time you meet.

Even if a meeting is not planned, exchanging erotic messages with a partner can make even habitual masturbation a vivid experience.

This is a good opportunity to explore your sexual fantasies and also an opportunity to discuss them with your partner. When exchanging messages, it is easier to share what is sometimes embarrassing to say in person.

Sexting can be an opportunity to bring Dirty Talk into your sex life if you're turned on by dirty talk and would like to try it, but don't know how to get started. It allows you to improve in “dirty talk”, helps you overcome embarrassment, teaches you to openly discuss your desires with your partner and fantasize out loud. All this can enrich your sex life, diversify it and make it more enjoyable.

Plus, this practice will make you and your partner feel desired. The messages you exchange throughout the day will constantly remind you that your partner finds you attractive, wants you, and fantasizes about you.

Sexting can be your shared little secret. Having received an erotic message from you in the middle of a business meeting, your partner may find the need to hold up a face in a new way arousing, as well as revel in the idea that it's just for the two of you. Mystery not only excites, but also brings together.

What photos and pictures should I send a guy to excite him?

Spicy pictures will excite a guy no less than messages. Men perceive an erotic picture very keenly, since by nature their visual perception is more developed.

An important condition for sending such messages is complete trust in the partner. You don't want to see your explicit photos published on a porn site, do you?

How to excite a guy over the Internet or SMS using a photo:

Take a selfie in your underwear. It may be a little banal, but it’s still effective. There is nothing more pleasant for a man who is far away from you than receiving a photo of a half-naked passionate girl.
Take a photo of just the décolleté area or the stocking elastic bands playfully peeking out from under the robe. Choose the part of the body that is most attractive to your partner and photograph it from a favorable angle.
Offer to play an erotic riddle game. Ask each other questions via SMS, and if one of the participants cannot find the answer, he sends an erotic photo. This quest can drive any man crazy with lust. The main thing is not to be too smart. Even if you know the answer to all the riddles perfectly, you simply must lose as often as possible.
Send an erotic picture showing an interesting sex position or some intimate toys. Accompany the material with the message: “I want to try this with you.” Men love experiments.

Use your imagination and you will certainly get the desired result - the guy will be delighted, and maybe even soon he will be at the door to your bedroom.

“I can - I can’t”

Such fun will strengthen the connection and help you find out the motives of your interlocutor. And also - look at the depths of your failures

Because when you talk about what you can’t do, you can’t help but think: what’s stopping me from, say, learning to ride a bike? Is this important for me?

Another secret: the game helps to clarify how compatible you are. Of course, for an accurate interpretation, a psychologist is needed, but if all the answers of one boil down to “I can’t run, walk, travel for a long time,” and the second to “I can’t stay in one place for a long time, be silent, spend the summer at home”…. Most likely, it will be difficult for these two to establish a common life.

What questions should you ask a guy when texting?

What villages, cities and countries have you visited?
Have a best friend and best girlfriend?
What's the best movie? Darling
Do you smoke cigarettes or have you been smoking for a long time?
quit? Are there qualities missing in your character, but which pleasures would you like to get rid of?
Where and what people do you hang out with? usually
What types of art are you most drawn to?
Any plans for this evening? should I take part in them?
What doesn't suit you in life?
Do you work by profession?
What is your attitude towards pets?
How do you lift if your mood drops to zero?
play Do you like gambling?
Do you believe in friendship between a woman and a man?
How do you feel about initiative people? Do you like them?
people? to risk?
What type of temperament do you belong to? myself
What sports do you prefer?
various in Do you believe mystical things?
What do you collect?
Do you treat small children like this?
What do your acquaintances and friends usually call you?
It's easy to get out and look in
myself? in the horoscope?
Do you have a favorite dish or drink? Darling
Do you often meet unusual people?
What do you really value in life?
Are you good at motorcycles (cars)?
Do you have an Internet gaming addiction or addiction?
Do you like shopping?

long-term Avoid pauses. Try to “fill” the silence with jokes, anecdotes, aphorisms or witty phrases.
Don't be intrusive. Don’t forget for a moment that real (real) life still exists.
Try not to make mistakes in words, as literacy fascinates many representatives of the stronger sex.
Stop thinking, you'll write something wrong. You can and do communicate well! All that remains is to sincerely believe it.
Answer all questions in detail, and not with short help and dry words - “yes”, “I don’t know”, “probably”, “no”, “possibly”, “hardly”, “don’t know” “well”, “yes no”, “yeah”, “exactly”, “yes-yes”, “uh-huh”, “true”, “of course”, “I doubt”, “I don’t think”, “I think otherwise”.
Don’t show off your intelligence, don’t try to seem smarter than your interlocutor. Behave as tactfully as possible.
If you disappear somewhere for a while, then explain and apologize for the situation. By doing this, you will earn yourself respect.
Be yourself. You should not play the serious role of a lady or a “first repeat star.”
Not quantities are the same words. Try to use your full vocabulary while remembering synonyms.
Call your interlocutor by name. By this you will show your good attitude towards him. Be careful with nicknames at first, as he may react negatively to them or with undisguised dissatisfaction.

Switch it up. . .

In order to make VKontakte correspondence more interesting, you can try playing with your interlocutor in And

this option is especially suitable for communication with a girl, as it can attract her attention, and at the same time it will be easier for you to make friends with her

There are many games that you can play using typing. Here are a few examples:

Active entertainment

Games for couples in love will refresh your senses

First, let's pay attention to those games for lovers where you have to be “active.” The best options for such entertainment are described below.

Duelists

A moderately active game, suitable for lovers who are already at an advanced stage of communication. The essence of this entertainment is as follows:

The lovers determine among themselves which elements they are wearing they will consider clothing. For example, are socks two items or one?
After this, the playing pair tosses a coin or otherwise determines which of them will start the game.
Then each of them, naturally taking into account the previously drawn lot, takes off his things one by one and puts them somewhere. Whoever stops first or gets completely naked loses.

Unusual dances

The main thing is not to argue when determining the winner

In order to play this game, you will have to do some preparation. More precisely, you need to get four records (to play music).

After this, in the appropriate environment, you can start having fun. The rules of the game are as follows:

Slow music starts first.
Then the lovers place 2 or 4 plates between them and press against each other (it is advisable to place the plates without placing them one on top of the other, but place them separately).
After this the dance begins.
By the middle of the game, you can speed up the tempo of the music. The loser is the one whose fault the last record falls.

The main thing in “unusual dances” is not to quarrel when determining the winner. If you succeed, consider it a success.

Reverse stripping

This type of entertainment does not have any particular difficulties and is quite fun to enjoy. In the process of such a game, one “beloved” changes into the clothes of another “beloved”. At will, the rules of the game can be modified and modernized.

Entertainment of this kind is valuable because it has no winner and is aimed only at making a couple in love fool around, lift their spirits and just have a good time.

Twister

Perhaps a game familiar to many. Regarding the couple in love, this game can be modernized. The most successful example would be to place the Twister card on the bed and play it there with your loved one.

If desired, the rules of such entertainment, again, can be modified. For example, playing naked or partially naked. In general, it all depends on the imagination and desires of the couple.

Love hide and seek

Games for couples - not only for young people, but also suitable for married couples

The essence of this game has little in common with ordinary hide and seek, because it is as follows:

First, the couple determines the “seeker” by drawing lots.
Secondly, the person they are looking for takes two glasses and pours champagne into them.
Thirdly, the “seeker” blindfolds himself with a non-transparent cloth.
Fourthly, with his “equipment”, the “sought” couple finds a secluded place in an apartment or a separate room (of course, you shouldn’t crawl into a closet).
And fifthly, the search begins. The one they are looking for may well give hints to the “detective” by tapping glasses or whistling.

If the “love hide and seek” ends successfully, you can drink champagne for brotherhood and continue spending time together.

As you can see, active games for lovers have plenty of room to have fun. The main thing is the desire to have fun and a proactive approach to business.