What is revenge
Revenge
is an action directed against the person who offended us or brought severe suffering into our lives.
The emotions that we experience towards the offender are the most negative and destructive to the psyche - anger, irritation, rage. The feeling of violated dignity and injustice make us suffer.
A devoted person wants to hurt another as much as it hurt himself. This is the main incentive for revenge.
Religion teaches us to forgive, to forgive sincerely, wishing the enemy all the best. But how to accept such forgiveness if inside the soul asks for revenge? You can see a psychologist, go to church. That pain and desire to harm another that sits inside us brings additional suffering.
The person who inflicted a mental wound might have forgotten about us; perhaps he does not even think about how we feel about him. He lives calmly, rejoices, prospers. And this provokes him even more and forces him to make plans for revenge. It is impossible to say unequivocally whether revenge is needed.
It depends on various circumstances:
- the degree of harm and suffering that was caused;
- forms of action;
- the identity of the offender.
In addition, the desire for revenge also depends on the psychotype of the offended person. For some of us, mental wounds heal quickly and leave no trace. For others, the harm caused becomes an obstacle to a normal life for many years.
Revenge can be based on feelings and emotions. Sometimes the desire for revenge is well thought out, and plans are hatched over months and years. Revenge can even be accidental, when harm to the offender is caused by a fortunate combination of circumstances.
It is impossible to say unequivocally whether it is worth intentionally causing harm to the enemy; everyone decides this issue based on their own convictions.
Under the tribal system, there was a custom of blood feud, when the murder of a clan member required revenge by eliminating the killer, and, if impossible, members of his family. Blood vengeance originates from the Old Testament, where the principle of “an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth” is formulated. Unfortunately, revenge often led to more serious consequences than the crime itself, and innocent people suffered.
Ways to ruin your life
You should be guided by the principle of justice before you begin to take revenge on a person. After all, if you really decide to harm someone, you need to realize the scale of the harm, the damage that will be caused. There is no need to harass a person if he takes your parking spot. You can arrange a kind of court hearing, where the guilt of the criminal has already been proven, and you only need to pass a verdict, which should be fair.
There are several options for how to harm a person you hate. You should immediately discard everything related to magic and rituals - it makes no sense. We need real action that causes real damage.
This damage is often accomplished through:
These are not even methods, but categories. Each of them is unique and includes dozens of options. Using the principle of justice, you can choose the type of revenge that suits a particular case . For example, if someone insulted you at work or at school, you can humiliate the person in return. This will not create a reputation for you as a vindictive and unscrupulous dirty tricker, unlike methods that involve damaging property.
However, the majority will still choose the option of damaging property, although watching the shame of a morally humiliated enemy is as pleasant as hearing his screams that someone broke his car window.
And also an extremely unpleasant (for the offender, of course) way would be to use his phone number. You can really get on your enemy’s nerves by constantly calling him at night. You can even download a special program and go to bed peacefully - it will do everything itself.
Don’t forget about methods that can really scare you. For example, intimidation, which includes not only anonymous threatening calls, but also good old notes under the door. Collectors use similar methods; you can adopt a couple of options from them.
Damage to property
The following options are usually used:
The main thing, as in principle with other methods, is not to get caught.
For such methods of revenge, there will be no criminal punishment, but administrative punishment is possible.
There will also be rumors, and all of this together will put you in a bad light, despite the fact that the initiator of the conflict was another person.
Harm via the Internet
Everything that happens in the modern world immediately ends up on the global network and is actively discussed. Even if the information is false. You can use this for your revenge. And there are a huge number of options for what nasty things can be done to a person.
But it is worth paying attention to the following:
The Internet provides quite creative and unusual ways to harm a person. Knowing the phone number, you can use it for revenge. But there are also other ways that can be much more unpleasant for the offender.
We use a phone number
In addition to posting ads on dating sites and trading platforms, you can use your phone number in other cases. You can intimidate a person, or you can attract the attention of law enforcement agencies to him.
To intimidate means to make a direct threat to a person’s health or life. This can lead to undesirable consequences if the offender wants to go to the police. So it's worth knowing how to intimidate someone anonymously. You can use Skype for this. It is often used by the famous Ukrainian pranker Volnov, who not only sarcastically mocked the victims of pranks, but also threatened some. This program allowed him to remain anonymous. It is designed for calls via the Internet, but also has a function for calls to the telephone. The main thing is not to indicate your number anywhere.
In addition, you will also need a program to change your voice. All calls will be made through a computer, so a microphone will be required. When you speak into a microphone, this program will transform your speech. In this way, the girl will be able to speak in the voice of a frail old man.
Having these utilities, all that remains is to think about the pressure line.
You can simply express your demand, for example, that the offender quit, and then reinforce the demand by calling at night, leaving messages on the door, and you can also break his windows with stones with a note attached.
The second option is to attract the attention of law enforcement agencies. It is necessary, wherever possible, to leave the enemy’s number indicating that drugs are sold here. You can write on fences and houses using a can of spray paint. A bold move would be to do this in front of the police station. The main thing is to spread it over a large area . And then either drug addicts who want to get a dose will call this number, or the police will pay attention to the owner of the number.
How to take revenge on the person who offended you
When a person decides to take revenge, he needs to know how to do it correctly. The main rule is to cool down the initial ardor and act wisely. Otherwise, you can mess up so much that existing problems will only multiply.
Basic rules of revenge
- The rush to take revenge is completely unjustified
. The more clearly the plan is thought out, the greater the chances of success. In addition, after time has passed, the offender may think that he has been forgiven and there will be no response from us. The enemy will relax, lose his vigilance, and then it’s worth striking! - Revenge will require cunning, flexibility and a clear plan from us
. By acting hastily and straightforwardly, we can fail, plans will be disrupted, and we will lose all opportunities. - Several methods of revenge should be prepared
. The more of them there are, the more reliable the choice will become. We will use the most promising ones, and reject the stupid and dangerous ones. - Study of the enemy, his habits, environment, preferences and passions
. It is necessary to feel the “koshcheevo egg”, a person’s weak point, his pain point. This is what is best hidden from prying eyes and reliably guarded. - There is no need to “mirror” the harm
. That is, if you were robbed, you don’t have to steal; if you’ve been cheated on, you shouldn’t jump into bed with the first person you meet. Perhaps such retaliatory moves will not be perceived as evil by the enemy. - Look for allies
. Surely the offender has them - people with whom he is on bad terms. If a person harmed you personally, then he could have harmed someone else. By joining forces, you will achieve your goal.
Aerobatics is revenge “by someone else’s hands”, the ability to pit one’s enemies against each other, like spiders in a jar. Let them destroy each other!
Attention!
The purpose of revenge is to gain peace of mind and comfort. If revenge will lead you to repentance, remorse, and guilt, then why was it needed at all? There is no need to aggravate your negative mental state.
Remember the Count de Monte Cristo. For many years in prison, he hatched a plan for revenge, but he took revenge on all his many enemies so delicately that it was worth it.
Who usually takes revenge and why?
First you need to determine whether it is worth taking revenge at all. We must not forget that the boomerang principle operates in life and there is a high probability that the consequences that you will have to accept will be much worse than you expected. Of course, you will receive moral satisfaction from the fact that a streak of troubles will come in the life of your offender, but think about whether it is worth stooping to his level.
The most common objects of revenge are:
Cruel revenge on the person who humiliated you, betrayed you and ruined your life
The main incentives for revenge are:
- Betrayal and (or) betrayal of a loved one
. This could be a friend who told all your secrets to strangers or an unfaithful husband whom you completely trusted and gave your life for his good. - Insidious attitude
. The man gained our trust, recognized our weak points, and then stabbed us in the back: he put us under dismissal, entered into an intimate relationship with our other half, and fraudulently transferred our property to himself.
- Insult, humiliation, neglect of us as individuals
. The boss, who publicly calls us a moron, forces us to go to work on weekends, taking advantage of the fact that we have problems finding work.
Revenge is most justified in cases where we understand the injustice of the insult inflicted on us. If, for example, the wife constantly changed lovers and the husband decided to divorce her, would it be advisable to take revenge on the spouse? Probably not - the woman will get what she deserves. No self-respecting man will live with a traitor, otherwise he will lose himself as a person.
So, we offer several ways to take revenge depending on the situation.
At work
Following the previous recommendations, we look for a weak point in a colleague or manager:
- financial abuse, loss of important documents, reporting;
- ill-wishers among the company’s clients or colleagues from other structures;
- problems in personal and (or) family life.
When the painful point is found, you can strike. For example, your boss, who called you stupid, is having an affair with his secretary. Take a couple of photos and show them to your boss's wife. It’s even more elegant to arrange a meeting between your wife and your lovers at the moment of their intimate meeting.
If you know about financial fraud, obtain the necessary documents and send copies of them to the regulatory authorities. An audit of the company and further sanctions against the fraudster are ensured.
In situations where a manager behaves dishonestly towards partners and associates, reveal the truth to them. You just need to have irrefutable evidence, otherwise you will look very stupid. The boss's partners, having learned about his dishonesty, will find a way to deal with it.
Revenge on husband or wife
The person you truly loved left, left without explanation, or found another couple. Here it is necessary to make a reservation that true love does not imply any revenge at all! If you wanted to take revenge, it means there were no sincere feelings between you. You should never wish harm and pain on a loved one!
The best thing to do in this situation is to calmly let the traitor leave. Firstly, he will be stunned, because tears and a stormy showdown were expected. Secondly, his pride will be hurt by the very fact of your indifference and lack of desire to fight for his person.
Live your life, become even more beautiful and successful. Then the desire to win everything back will only intensify. When the cheater or dumper comes back, this will be your finest hour. The traitor will experience what it is like to be unwanted and unloved.
You can take revenge according to the rules listed above - arrange a dismissal at work, ruin, set up a new passion for a new lover. But! Revenge will not return your love and trust; your soul will also suffer. Thus, the goal of revenge will not be achieved. It is smarter and more profitable in such situations to build your new personal life. As a rule, life itself punishes traitors.
Children's ways of revenge
To somewhat revive such a serious topic, we will talk about some methods of revenge that will not cause serious injury to the enemy, but will cause trouble and deprive them of peace.
Place waste products (feces) under the door of the offender’s apartment or office. The main thing is to think about whose hands to make such a thing. You can pay, for example, a person without a fixed place of residence.
Care should be taken to ensure that the performer is not caught by security and does not fall under surveillance cameras. If you dress a performer in a suit with a hood, then the camera won’t show anything. It will also not be easy for the victim to file a complaint with the police: when explaining the essence of the “crime,” there is a risk of being ridiculed by the officers.
Despite its simplicity, if repeated several times, this method can drive the enemy to white heat and make him a laughing stock in front of the entire office or entrance.
You can take revenge on a man by writing an offensive inscription on his car with paint. For example, “I am a deer”, “Waiting for all the gays to visit, ready for sex”, “I have the smallest one!” Come up with options yourself. Neighbors, drivers and auto repair shop workers will be delighted.
How to punish a person knowing his phone number without getting into trouble?
When planning revenge, you should keep in mind that some methods are far from harmless. According to the law, it is forbidden to disturb people’s sleep at night, spread defamatory gossip via phone numbers, damage property, or insult people. Legal revenge may involve collecting evidence of the offender’s illegal actions and filing a complaint with law enforcement agencies. You can report to the police for vandalism, theft, threats, stalking, etc.
And if the offender did not commit anything that can be presented at the court hearing, it is best to abandon revenge altogether. Treat this person’s dirty tricks as the actions of a narrow-minded individual. And revenge, most likely, will be carried out by life itself. After all, a person always receives with a boomerang what he himself sends.
Modern revenge via the Internet
Social networks provide an excellent opportunity to take revenge on a person. One option is to create a fake enemy page on a dating site. Create a person's page and post their photo. Many indecent details and passions in your personal life should be indicated. Leave your cell phone number and email address for contact. If a person is legally married, then it will be very difficult for him to convince his spouse that this is a mistake. In addition, potential applicants will be able to “win” your enemy with numerous phone calls and email messages.
You can also go to the offender’s page on social networks and leave obscene or threatening messages there.
If you have thoroughly studied the weaknesses of the offender, then you can send him email messages from fictitious senders. For example, if a person has problems with the law, then you can blackmail him. A massive attack will drive an unstable personality to paranoia.
How can you use data about a person to harm him?
There are several ways to take revenge on a person, knowing his passport details, first and last name, phone number or address.
- For example, if you communicate in the same circle, you have many mutual friends, then you can try to ruin his reputation. You can influence the social status and position of a person in society through various gossip and rumors. You will only need to think through everything in advance so that in the end your deception is not revealed.
- Knowing a person’s passport details, you can harm his financial affairs. Lately, fraud involving various credits and loans has become very popular. If you don’t understand anything about this, then post the information on the Internet. The scammers will not keep you waiting long and very soon your ill-wisher will have to deal with collection companies.
- If you know the phone number of the person you decided to take revenge on, then you can, as in the previous method, leave his number on the Internet with a call for help to add a fly in the ointment to this person’s life. Someone will definitely respond.
- Knowing the first and last name, many often turn to magic to harm their enemy. The surest ways would be damage or a family curse. But here you should be especially careful, since this method, although at first glance it seems the simplest, can have the most unpleasant consequences for you.
Create a page or blog on the Internet
If you approach this issue competently and responsibly, you can get a good result. Especially if such a person says: “I like to pester people.” If he has this opinion, then he needs to show how others feel. In this case, it is necessary to collect a lot of information about this person in order to use it in the future. Then you need to go to a popular site where you can blog for free, for example “LJ”.
Next, register under a false name or a fictitious one. After which you can write a special post. It can highlight all the negative qualities of a person. However, you need to use creativity to generate interesting headlines. If everything is done correctly, then this person will be remembered for a very long time because of provocative notes.
